#7 Spontaneous Thursday: Why do people easily judge others?

Thursday, May 17, 2012


I always say i don't easily judge people before i meet them but thinking about it, if you see someone who looks a bit scary, i always cross the street. But the scary looking person could be the nicest person in the world. Also at school, if i see a group of boy students tease someone else (girl students) behind the p.e equipment store, i walk away because i automatically assume that they're rough. From now on, i myself try hard not to judge people.



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29 comments

  1. dah kenal betul2 baru la boleh nak judge2 kan...:)

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  2. as what you've mentioned " if you see someone who looks a bit scary, i always cross the street". all of us might do the same action as yours, but who knows maybe that person is the cutest person before. maybe by some circumstances,it makes her/his face turn out to be little bit scary.

    versatile. oh oh..thanks. just for fun. XD

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  3. hehehe... saya pun penah macam tu dulu.. agaknya sebab pakaian yang saya pakai selekeh masa tu, seorang pempuan yang duduk sebelah saya cepat2 berlalu pergi... takut agaknya... aha

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  4. so true that sometimes the scary looking guy could be the nicest person..because one of that guy is my husband now..hehe..

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  5. nah dear i think it's sound more you being careful and aware to the thing's around cause maybe you already got use to had this in min prevention is better than cure. That is why you got to be aware and stay away from bad things from happening.


    Judging is another case he he it's when you point at others weaknesses before you hardly get to know them.


    sometime we're just curious about thing's that happening all around our surroundings..

    first time here, :) follow your blog and visited you back.

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  6. people will judge u,but what's important is the people that actually care about you will just be happy that you're happy.-QUOTE

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  7. Never judge a book by it's cover :)

    But in these days where there are too many bad guys on street, it is understandble for us to be more protective, especially for a young lady like you :)

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  8. tapi siriyesli.
    chemay sangat cepat judge orang,
    susah nak ubah tauuu
    =.=

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  9. Farra! Lama tak baca blog ni...

    Hmm,saya pun agak judgmental sometimes, nak cuba ubah jugak...

    bukan apa, judgmental ni menyuburkan sikap b'sangka buruk kat orang lain kan,hmm...

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  10. kdg² luaran dan dalaman seseorg tu lain..hehe

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  11. mmg ssh not to judge people..maybe sbb kita mmg dah scara tidak sgaja telah dididik utk judging people smpi kkdg kita terfollow? =)

    anyway, all the best utk apa yg tgh diusahakan ut ^^

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  12. perkara yg kita biasa buat kn..kdg2 yg nmpk menakutkan tu baik sbnrnye.. ada jgak yg nmpk sopan tp hakikatnya cuma berpura-pura

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  13. kenal betul2 owg tu bawu boleh kita nak ckp dia tu macam mana..kalau x kenal x payah lah nk burukan owg..kn? :)

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  14. betul juga pepatah " dont judge a book from its cover " kan kan .. eh eh betul tak words akk tu ;)

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  15. To be honest,I'm always like that. Before I go out, I'll tell myself that everyone is beautiful. But then when I met someone 'scary' as you stated,my mind will always says something bad to them. I don't know why...just so hard to change lah >;(

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  16. sye pon suke judge2 nie..just dlm fkiran je.. tapi cube knal org tu lbeh dlm untk tahu sikap sbenar die..

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  17. Hmm... akak jarang berprasangka buruk tapi lebih suka perhatikan dulu kot. Kadang-kadang tak salah kalau kita berprasangka buruk terhadap situasi yang kita tak tahu, sebab orang 'jahat' memang ada je disekeliling kita. So the better word, kena berhati-hati selalu :)

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  18. hehe, selalunya macam tu la sikap sesetengah org. hazfee kadang2 pun tak lari dari judge org dgn hanya melihat luaran diaorg je.hehe

    kena kurangkan dan usaha jgn pernah menilai org hanya dr luaran :)

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  19. Sama la kita, kekadang tu kita salah menilai orang.
    Dari luaran kalau kita tengok dia kasar kita assume orang tu macam ni,
    kalau nampak kemas kita kata macam ni..

    Tp realitinya tak semua orang tak elok dari pandangan luar.. kan?

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  20. selalunya kontra...yang nampak baik kadang bukanlah baik sangat, kena kenal baru tahu.

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  21. Thanks for the response, readers.

    unfortunately, we all do it. we judge others. their actions, choices, behaviors, relationships, likes and dislikes and even their personalities. we've all been conditioned to judge and be critical of things around us (some of us more than others) and while this can be useful to look at ways to improve things by seeing what we don't like, it more often leads us to hurtful comments, disconnected relationships and various negative feelings. no one really likes to be judged and so eliminating this from your own actions will improve your life and relationships!

    last but not least, don't judge others, be helpful instead. :)

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  22. judging tu biasanya disebabkan first impression. bila dah kenal, sebenarnya mereka tak begitu pun~

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  23. betul dear. anim pown selalu gitu jugak. terlalu judgemental.
    kdg-2 kite tgk muke kerek tu, tak kerek pown.
    muke yang ok tu, kerek semacam plak. huhu

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  24. As salam Rtp Farra,

    Enjoy reading others comments & responses... :))

    Well, in real life people will see outside appearance... And its true first impression is not always true but it is very2 important & we couldn't resist to do so...

    For me, what you looks like is what you are... Because u choose to be like that :))

    Anyway, we have no right to judge others... Being busy to improve & assess oneself is better than looking at others :))

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  25. don't judge a book by its cover..so do don't judge a person by its appearance :)

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  26. being judgemental is not always that bad though if we outweigh it correctly on what we being judgemental on in order to build safe barrier that prevent us from being expose to harmful effects.

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  27. Yesss...don't judge people...sme jgk if kamu xmngenalinya..xkira siapa dia...knl dlu bru.slps tu bru bt penilaian...tq..:^)

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