Fake People.Saturday, April 11, 2015
Assalamualaikum and hi lovelies.
Fake? The word may not seem unfamiliar with us. What do you think about fake people and how can you discover them? That moment when you start thinking, you gotta be a bit...Yeah, okay, do not need you to tell me your interpretation until I have finished my writing off here.
There is no such thing like fake people. It is a made-up concept which I believe everyone has their own point of view of why some people being fake, how they are being fake and the list goes on. As I understand it, fake person is someone who says one thing to your face and then turn around and say or do something that goes against what they said to your face.The situation is just same like you are dealing with two-faced people. I am undoubtedly sure that you may have dealt with people like this once or twice or every day in your entire life and it makes you feel suck and gets your life complicated!
Listen, I am a writer and observer as well. I am by no means assume myself right all the time. But come on, I am also a grown adult and have learnt something in part of this life I have led on. Sometimes, it takes some time before we realize a person we know is fake or on the bad list. Some of us take longer time than others to notice these kinds of people since most of the time they may do this subtly but if you concentrate you could probably catch them just by observing their conversation with others you may know (for example).
I just do not understand how people being nice and forthright to you, but behind your back they say something terrible about you and they talk craps thus effecting your whole reputation. That makes them fake, not real, not genuine. Well, people are people. like it or not, everyone fakes it at some point of their lives for whatever reason. Either because of jealousy or just want to make oneself hurts on purpose, I really do not know what their exact purpose is and what makes them want to be perceived as fake people. I feel so sorry, this cannot be helped.
In spite of being surrounded by fake people, the only better thing is not to get close, stay away or try to get them out of your life immediately. Never ever go down to their level or even mix around with them anymore. Please do not say I am cruel and I am not being cruel, but before they exacerbate the situation to create chaos, all you need to do is to make sure them fake people absent from your personal life, your work and your school maybe. I know it is a lot easier said than done in a lot of unpleasant situations and I cannot pretend to say this is not true. Again, I am sorry for saying this but by hook or by crook I have to be frankly speaking so that I am not categorized or labelled as fake here.
As human beings, regardless of real or fake, we have character traits, both good and bad and what I can deduce is those define who we are as human beings. Some people may consider they are good and see themselves perfect, although in reality some of them are bad and imperfect which they cannot see it by themselves but other people can see. But hey do I look like I care? Not at all. No one is perfect and being imperfect should be no problem rather than being pure evil behind the fakeness or whatever you wanna call it.
Now that I think we are just lucky enough to get knowing someone who promises (not only make a promise but does it) to be honest and trustworthy with us and honestly I tell you that it is downright amazing moment of adulthood that I have got a chance to understand and identify the people I should surround myself with. Let say one day if I gotta meet same fake people or another fake ones, I would probably...Just because I know one day someone will teach them a lesson which impresses it powerfully upon their heart and see if there is a possibility to change them or the fake character remains static.